Daddy's & Babygirl's
Rules and Guidelines
Sleep Schedule
- Night before work: Bedtime is at 1:30am at the latest
- Day of work: Wake up no later than 9:00am - must be out of bed by 9:20am
- Day off: Bedtime is at 4:00am at the latest
- Day off: Wake up by 11:00am at the latest - must be out of bed by 11:20am
Disciplinary action for not following schedule
- 30 minutes early bedtime
Hygiene & Health
- Brush teeth twice a day (Morning & Night)
- Floss at least once daily
- Shower at least every other day
- Take you medications as recommended
- Meditate at least 3 times a week
- Eat at least 2 meals a day
- Record a summary of your day daily into your journal
Disciplinary action for not having proper hygiene/health
- 200-500 word easy about the importance of health & hygiene (word count and topic are left to Daddy's discretion)
- (X) number of sentences determined by Daddy based on number of offenses to help remember proper hygiene & health
Proper Preparation
- Pre pack lunch the day before work when applicable
- (exceptions include but are not limited to: eating out, warm food, purchased items while at work, simple ready to go meals)
- Make bed every morning
Disciplinary action for not properly planning
- Make lunch immediately unless unable to(ex: too late at night)
- (X) number of sentences determined by Daddy based on number of offenses to help remember proper preparation
How to speak to Daddy
- You will always call Daddy "Daddy" or "Sir" (exceptions include: coffee breaks, out in public, inappropriate scenarios)
- Always greet Daddy in the morning with a good morning or similar greeting
- (it is preferred that you say goodnight to Daddy but it is ok if you fall asleep before being able to do so)
- no being rude/obnoxious towards Daddy (you will be given one warning)
Disciplinary action for not speaking to Daddy properly
- Spankings
- Timeout
- (X) number of sentences determined by Daddy
Things that require Daddy's permission
- Touching yourself (if Daddy does not respond within 10 minutes time, you can accept that as permission. If this is the case inform Daddy that you have started playing. Picture(s)/video(s) are welcomed but not required)
- Permission to cum (if Daddy has not responded to your request to touch you can take that as permission. If Daddy has allowed you to touch but has not responded to your request to cum in 3 minutes you can accept that as permission)
- Eating after 11:00pm (if Daddy does not respond within 10 minutes you may accept that as permission. You you are in public or with friends/family permission is not needed)
Disciplinary action for not asking for Daddy's permission
For touching/cumming (chosen at Daddy's discretion)
- - Long periods of teasing without touching
- - Not allowed to touch for (X) number of days
- - Spankings
- - Watch Daddy touch himself
- - (X) number of sentences determined by Daddy based on number of offenses to help remember to ask for permission
For eating after hours without permission
- - (X) number of sentences determined by Daddy based on number of offenses to help remember to ask for permission
Self Harm
Self harm is very serious. Daddy loves you and wants to protect you, that includes protecting you from yourself.
- Negative talk about oneself will not be tolerated. (I will attempt to de-escalate and return you to a calm state. If Daddy is not around when this happens inform Daddy immediately.)
- Looking at thinspo. (you are beautiful and comparing yourself to others is not healthy for you)
- Causing oneself physical harm (you will not be punished and this does not make you bad. Daddy understands that this can happen and is here to help. If Daddy is not around inform Daddy immediately)
Disciplinary action for looking at thinspo
- Tell Daddy (X) positive things about your body (number is up to Daddy's discretion)
Babygirl's Expectations of Daddy
These are guidelines for Daddy to follow
- Always practice aftercare (making sure Babygirl is safe and happy is a priority)
- Be aware of body language and tone. Babygirl may agree to something but may be doing something out of fear of disappointing Daddy. It is important to recognize this and stop said activity
- When Babygirl is little Daddy is expected to be Big
Safety
Safety is essential and is not taken lightly.
- Safe word "Yellow" - This signifies that something may need to be adjusted or changed or that a short break is needed
- Safe word "Red" - This signifies something is wrong and everything needs to be stopped immediately. All restraints will be removed immediately
- Coffee Breaks - We are 24/7. This can sometimes cause complications in communication. By using each others birth name where not normally used it is understood by both parties that we are speaking outside of the dynamic. Coffee breaks can also be asked for directly.
Reminders
These rules/guidelines are to give both of us direction and structure within our relationship.
- Daddy loves you and will always be there to protect you
- Daddy wants to help you become the best version of yourself
- Daddy wants to keep you safe
- Breaking a rule does not make you bad. It allows for an opportunity to improve